Feminism does not mean hatred of all men. That is what we call "feminazi". I am for equality for both genders.
Do men need to be "manly", strong, beer, football, not cooking nor sewing. There is no reason a man can't cook or sew without being called gay. (in an attempt to be derogatory. (In reality there is nothing wrong with homosexuals))
There are, yes, differences between men and women, but neither is inherently better or worse then the other. If a female wants to do something traditionally considered masculine that's okay and if a male wants to do something traditionally considered feminine that's okay too.